Your truth will set you free, but first it will demand a fire.
Most of us are unknowingly living inside someone else’s story. We wake up every day following rules we never agreed to, shrinking to fit into boxes we were never meant to occupy, and calling it “normal.” But deep down, we know that’s a lie. The truth is, there’s a life that belongs only to you: a life waiting for you to claim it. This article will challenge the false narratives you’ve inherited, show you how to step into unshakable alignment, and remind you that the life you crave has been inside you all along.
The Lies We Inherited.
From the moment we take our first breath, we’re absorbing the rules of the world around us. Family tells us what’s “appropriate.” Culture tells us what’s “normal.” Religion tells us what’s “holy.” Society tells us what’s “successful.” Over time, those voices become internalized, whispering in our heads like truths: Don’t be too loud. Don’t want too much. Don’t stand out. Don’t take up space. But here’s the reality: these are not truths. They are scripts. And the scripts were never written with your soul in mind.
The Power Of Truth.
What Needs To Burn.
Reclaiming your life requires fire. You cannot carry the old narratives into your new chapter. Something has to burn.
- The old narrative that says you’re not enough. This is the root lie, the one that disguises itself in self-doubt, perfectionism, comparison, and fear of rejection. Burn it.
- The false identities you built just to be accepted. The “good girl,” the “overachiever,” the “people-pleaser,” the “tough one.” These masks kept you safe, but they also kept you hidden. Burn them.
- The timelines you inherited that never fit you anyway. Marriage by 30. A career by 40. Retirement at 65. Who decided that for you? Burn it.
Here’s your challenge: take out a journal and write down three lies you’ve been living by. Then, for each one, write the truth that feels more alive. Notice how your energy shifts when you see your truth written on paper. If you want to go deeper, I invite you to check out my book, The Truth Within The Lie, where I guide you through this transformative process step by step.
You were never created to shrink: you were created to rise. To speak your truth. To burn the narratives that were never yours and step boldly into the life you were meant to live. The only question left is: are you ready to light the match?
About The Author:
DANA GRANT
Master Certified Life Mentor
Dana Grant is an International Master Life and Business Coach, author, podcast host, and co-founder of Cali’Flour Foods. She leads global retreats and masterclasses, has overcome personal challenges including addiction, and is featured in outlets like Forbes and Microsoft. Her mission is to help people unlock their full potential and ignite their soul’s purpose.
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